familycourtmatters.wordpress.com said: April 6, 2010 10:37 am PST
THANK YOU for posting what I believe to be the sequence: The alienation comes from the kidnapping, and not vice versa. Any kidnapping might be sudden, and not predictable, but in our case (and many) the mental "kidnapping" can happen before, including years before, as it's demonstrated, and often cruelly, to the child(ren) that it is NOT going to be safe for them to bond with the decent (law-abiding) parent.
I don't normally post without checking out more of the site, but am going to do so in this case. I hope you were able to establish a stable relationship and/or marriage after growing up, and would like to know if you have a relationship with your siblings (and were all taken, or just you?). Thanks.